The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) reports that almost one in four women in the United States will suffer severe physical violence from an intimate partner at some point in their lives. When the definition is broadened to include sexual violence and stalking, the figure rises to more than one in three women—about 43.5 million individuals.
Early Onset and Lifetime Impact
CDC data also reveal that roughly 16 million women first encounter intimate partner violence before turning 18, and the majority experience their first abusive relationship before age 25. These early experiences can have lasting physical, emotional, and economic consequences.
Reporting Gap Remains Wide
Despite the prevalence of this abuse, the Bureau of Justice Statistics (BJS) notes that between 2006 and 2015 police were notified in only about 56 percent of the estimated 1.3 million non‑fatal domestic‑violence incidents each year. Because that figure includes violence from family members and other relatives, the reporting rate for intimate‑partner violence specifically is likely at or below that level. In plain terms, for every two incidents that occur, roughly one goes entirely unreported.
Why Victims Often Stay Silent
Analysis of BJS data from the early 2000s shows the most common reason women give for not calling police—22 percent—was viewing the incident as a private matter rather than a criminal one. Protecting the offender (14 percent) and fear of retaliation (12 percent) follow closely, while 8 percent believed law enforcement would not help.
These reasons reflect a complex calculus of safety, finances, and family dynamics. Victims may fear that reporting could lead to loss of income, housing, or custody of children, especially when they are financially dependent on the abusive partner.
Distrust of Law Enforcement
Distrust in police and courts is another documented barrier. Prior negative experiences—personal or within a community—can make victims doubt that reporting will result in meaningful protection. This sentiment is especially strong in communities with historically strained relationships with law‑enforcement agencies.
Pathways to Safety Beyond Police Reports
Advocates stress that closing the reporting gap requires more than public awareness. Practical resources such as safe housing, financial assistance, and legal protections that do not hinge on a criminal complaint are essential. For example, protective orders can often be obtained through civil courts, giving victims a legal safeguard without immediate police involvement.
WSM Law, a family‑law firm that assists women in divorce and custody matters across several states, notes that many of its clients face simultaneous family‑court and safety concerns. The firm highlights that civil‑court options exist for victims who feel unsafe or unable to involve police.
Getting Help
If you or someone you know is experiencing intimate‑partner violence, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24 hours a day at 1‑800‑799‑7233 or via thehotline.org. Professional counselors, shelters, and legal aid organizations can also provide critical support.
Original reporting: KEYT (Ventura/Santa Barbara) — read the source article.
