A recent conversation with Jordan Ritter Conn, author of ‘American Men,’ highlights the importance of men opening up about their emotions and struggles. Conn’s book follows four men who struggle with their masculinity and vulnerability, showing what it’s like to live as a whole person instead of two fractured ones.
Breaking the Silence
Men are often taught to ‘man up’ and deal with their emotions alone, but this can lead to hidden depression, anxiety, and even violence. Conn suggests that men need permission and structure to open up, and that this can be achieved through genuine interest and curiosity from others.
Conn’s book provides a platform for men to share their stories and struggles, and to find connection and understanding with others. By sharing their vulnerabilities, men can begin to break down the barriers that prevent them from opening up and seeking help.
As one of the men in the book, Joseph, found, opening up and sharing his struggles can be a powerful way to find healing and connection. Despite facing hurtful responses, Joseph continued to open up and seek help, eventually finding the support and understanding he needed.
A Call to Action
Conn’s book is a call to action for men to start talking about their emotions and struggles. By doing so, they can begin to break down the stigma surrounding mental health and vulnerability, and find the support and connection they need.
Fathers, in particular, can take away the importance of being vulnerable and open with their children. By sharing their own struggles and emotions, fathers can model healthy behavior and help their children develop emotional intelligence and resilience.
Original reporting: KRDO (Colorado Springs metro) — read the source article.