A man wrote to Dear Abby about his 31-year marriage and his hobby as a musician. He plays guitar, sings, and writes songs, including some about his wife and their love. However, his wife is not very musical and has never asked him to play for her, despite his hints.
Seeking Appreciation
The man is not looking for his wife to become a huge fan, but rather for her to show some appreciation for his efforts. He feels that if she were to ask him to play a song for her, it would mean a lot to him. Dear Abby advised him to continue writing songs if it brings him satisfaction, regardless of his wife’s interest.
In a separate letter, a single, retired woman sought advice on how to handle friends who invite her to events at the last minute and become annoyed when she declines. Dear Abby suggested that she continue to respond politely, stating that she needs more advance notice, and that it’s okay to be busy and not always available to chat.
Original reporting: Texarkana Gazette — read the source article.
