UW Professor emeritus John Gottman’s research into couples and their problem-solving styles reveals that marriages that succeed have the same communication styles. There are three main styles: Avoider, Screamer, and Negotiator. Avoiders avoid conflict, Screamers vent their emotions, and Negotiators discuss problems calmly and look for common ground.
Applying Communication Styles to Government
Gottman’s three communication styles can be applied to our current national government. The legislative branch can be seen as Negotiators, trying to find common ground and compromise. The executive branch, on the other hand, can be seen as Screamers, using their power to push their agenda. The judicial branch, particularly the Supreme Court, can be seen as Avoiders, making decisions that avoid conflict but may not always address the underlying issues.
In a representative democracy, it is up to the people to decide what kind of communication style works best for their government. Not voting is equivalent to being an Avoider, allowing others to make decisions without input. It is essential to participate in the democratic process and make your voice heard.
Original reporting: Renton Reporter — read the source article.
