By OBBM Network Editorial Staff

Derived from an episode of Leading Leaders TV.

Imagine coming home from a long day, exhausted and stressed, only to be met with a simple yet profound question from a loved one: ‘Do you still love me?’ This everyday scenario can be a powerful reminder that our lives are not just about our own needs and desires, but about the impact we have on those around us. As J. Loren Norris notes, ‘It’s not about you. It’s not about you. Those are hard words to hear, harder words to understand, but that’s exactly what we’re going to talk about.’

The Power of Intentional Living

J. Loren Norris emphasizes the importance of being intentional about the life we live and the legacy we leave. By focusing on the needs of others and being mindful of the values we impart, we can create a meaningful and lasting impact on those around us. This requires a willingness to let go of our own selfish desires and to prioritize the well-being of others. As Norris notes, ‘Maybe you don’t have kids. I have clients who don’t have kids, but they built empires. And I challenge them all the time. What are you going to do with it? What are you going to do with all the success you’ve had? Who will you leave that to?’

Leaving a Lasting Legacy

So how can we leave a lasting legacy that will outlast us? Norris suggests that it starts with being honest about our own motivations and desires. ‘If you’re willing to be honest and say, it’s not about me, because it’s not about you. If you’re willing to say, then what is it about? Whose life am I here to impact?’ By asking ourselves these questions, we can begin to identify the values and principles that will guide our actions and decisions. As Norris notes, ‘Leaving a legacy means realizing the life you live is not about you. That’s a hard thing to accept, but it’s true.’

Creating a Vision for the Future

Creating a vision for the future is also an important part of leaving a lasting legacy. This involves identifying the values and principles that we want to pass on to others and being intentional about how we live our lives. As Norris notes, ‘You have the resources to say, I want you to look to your future because the greatest legacy I can leave you is hope and a vision.’ By creating a vision for the future, we can inspire and motivate others to do the same, creating a ripple effect of positive change.

In conclusion, leaving a lasting legacy requires intentional living, a focus on the needs of others, and a willingness to prioritize the well-being of those around us. By being mindful of the values we impart and creating a vision for the future, we can create a meaningful and lasting impact on those around us. As J. Loren Norris reminds us, ‘It’s not about me.’ The full episode of Leading Leaders TV is available on OBBM Network TV.

Watch Leading Leaders TV on OBBM Network TV: https://www.obbmnetwork.tv/series/leading-leaders-tv-207508