PROVIDENCE, R.I. — On October 18, the Cathedral of Saints Peter and Paul opened its doors to a remarkable gathering of 215 couples who came together to honor milestone wedding anniversaries. The annual Mass, presided over by Bishop Lewandowski, offered each couple a chance to renew their marriage vows and publicly celebrate the years they have shared.
“Because if we love each other, we conquer certain challenges,” said attendee Maria Carvalho, highlighting the perseverance that long‑term marriage demands. The ceremony emphasized the symbolic weight of the wedding ring, with Bishop Lewandowski noting, “That ring on your finger has paid for itself over and over again in tears shed, laughter shared, in promises kept.”
For many participants, the sight of so many enduring marriages was a powerful reminder of the value of the marital covenant. “To see so many people married, when you hear of so much separation, it shows there are still people who honor marriage,” remarked attendee Faye Lorden, underscoring the event’s hopeful message for the broader community.
Among the couples celebrated was Hugo and Serafina DeAscentis, who marked an extraordinary 79 years of marriage. When asked about the secret to a long and happy union, Hugo offered simple, timeless advice: “Have patience with yourself, with your wife and the world.” Their story resonated with younger couples in the audience, many of whom are navigating the challenges of modern family life.
The Mass also featured traditional hymns, readings from Scripture, and a special blessing of the rings. Families gathered in the cathedral’s nave, sharing stories of love, loss, and perseverance across generations. Children watched with wide eyes as their parents knelt, reinforcing the intergenerational nature of the celebration.
Local clergy and community leaders praised the event as a testament to the strength of family and faith in Providence. Bishop Lewandowski highlighted the role of the church in supporting marriages, saying, “Our faith calls us to nurture and protect the family unit, which is the foundation of a healthy society.”
After the ceremony, couples exchanged hugs and photographs, many posting their renewed vows on social media with the hashtag #ProvidenceVows. The cathedral’s staff reported that the event drew attendees from across Rhode Island, reflecting the broad appeal of a public affirmation of marital commitment.
Organizers hope the annual service will continue to inspire couples to prioritize their relationships, especially in a cultural climate where divorce rates remain a concern. By publicly renewing vows, participants reaffirm not only their personal promises but also the communal belief that marriage endures as a cornerstone of family life.
The celebration concluded with a reception in the cathedral’s parish hall, where local vendors provided refreshments and a modest fundraiser supported the cathedral’s outreach programs. As the evening drew to a close, the sense of unity and shared purpose lingered, reminding all present that love, patience, and faith remain vital ingredients for lasting marriage.
Original reporting: NBC 10 WJAR (Sinclair) – local — read the source article.
